You know, I sit here and wonder (right now because it just popped into my head)… why is being “Goth” such a big deal? I mean, if you consider yourself a “Goth” and are reading this right now, you can’t just lay or sit there and tell me that you haven’t ever thought of it. Why is it such a big deal? I ponder this because I deal with a Dad that looks me in the eyes and tells me that this “Goth thing” isn’t me. I disagree. I love this lifestyle and everything that is apart of its culture. Though, there is still discrimination about who I am by some of my family. I have to give credit, though, to my mother and all of my best friends. My mom is… alright with me being whoever I want (well, I’m pretty sure that she’s okay with it). And my friends… man, I have to thank or worship whatever God gave them to me because I don't think I would be here right now if I didn’t have those freaks.
Anyways, what is it that the term “Goth” throws off people? I know from experience that whenever someone hears that word—that isn’t one—thinks that a “Goth” is bad. The reason I put this into quotation marks is that “Goth” can be defined in numerous ways. The way I’ve heard it the most in my research is that it is a lifestyle; a way that you live your life—not just a way you dress or a “phase” you’re going through. Though, it CAN be defined as a phase, a way of dress, and a manner of style. For some, Goth IS a phase. For others, its’ not. For ME it’s not. I am a Goth—or what I consider one—and I’m just so… confused and frustrated. If it’s not bad… then, WHY the discrimination. It pisses me off. Though, I suppose now-a-days it’s hard to tell what’s true from what’s false. I still wonder…
Well, the other day, I learned of this thing that may or may not be considered “Goth” and I am squealing at it! >_<
This is Monster High. I think it’s for kids, but I can’t help but adore it! So far, I have watched all of the cartoon episodes on its website, www.monsterhigh.com, and played most of the games. I also have an account on there. >_< I know, it’s very childish of me, but I can’t help it! It’s just so creative and awesome! Okay, so the main characters are Frankie Stein, Draculaura, and Clawdeine Wolf. The names are also SO creative! Some, like my friend who thinks the names are ridiculous, may think that the character names are, indeed, ridiculous, but I LOVE them! There are also BOOKS, by Lisi Harrison, that aren’t really a part of the Monster High cartoons, but are really awesome books. The very first main character is Frankie Stein—the daughter of Franken Stein (at least that’s what I got out of it). I haven’t read the entire book yet, but it’s amazing. *sighs* I think this will be my new thing…
Well, as I ponder and daydream, I will leave you all with this note:
For all those Goths out there, the gothic lifestyle is apart of life. The gothic subculture is extra-ordinary and beautiful: or what I’ve seen of it. It’s mainly about three things: the clothing, the music, and the lifestyle. (I’m not 100% on that last part, sorry) If you want to experience that beauty, it’s your job to research and live it how you want it. But don't force yourself; being what is defined as “Goth” isn’t something you choose on a whim. It takes time and effort. And just be you. J
And as for me…
Ravenson out.
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